Qb thoughts .... Very long thoughts
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SBC..., other than meaning Swinger Bliss Club... Can mean many things . This time I decide to talk about what each letter represents.
S:
What do you think of when I say the letter "S"?
Sex? Probably the first thing that comes in mind. Well of course the common denominator here for everyone is Sex, we all have one thing in common, either wants sex , curious about sex , discover new boundaries in sex, that's why we all join SBC in the beginning right ? You google the word Swing, sex party, group sex, etc... We all are curious about sex. There's always a curiosity in joining this club at first for everyone. For me ? Well for the obvious reason, group sex. Always wanted to experience how that's like... To be able to feel comfortable in my naked silhouette around many others. You can call me a curious bean, but who isn't ? Once you become a close member of this group, you begin to feel more and more comfortable about yourself around others. There's no doubt in that. I still remember the very first time I joined my first party , how nervous I was in my own skin around others. But as time goes by, you soon realize there's nothing to be nervous about. For the new participants out there, yeah of course the first few times you may need to be more observant and see how the party runs, it's ok to be nervous. especially for the guys, you gotta take the effort to make it right. There may be many failures at first but eventually there will be success at some point. Taking the time to know the members more before making move is always the wiser choice.
"S": Socialize.
I know we are all here for one thing... But really , SBC is not just a place where you come and Fxxx and then leave. If you wanna just fxxx and leave, why not just go out and find yourself a SP or pick up some random person at the bar/club wouldn't that just be easier for you?
SBC is more like a medium for people who wanna experience something different providing it be in a safe environment to do so. I enjoy the ambiance of the parties. Great venues, great members, great food & beverage, great condoms ( various colour, size and thickness haha), great themes, great games, and of course great sex I come to these parties not only for Sex, but also to see the members and just chit chat and gossip around. It's great to know that the person you are intimate with can also be a great chatting partner. No strings attached whatsoever.
Watching members hang around in the living room and just "blow water" is great, but I guess when the rooms aren't occupied, not a very good sign. Dr always encourages people to not just hang around in the living room and if you wanna know more about the opposite sex, why not invite them into the room for a more intimate conversation? Yeah yeah we all know it, but of course we expect the male members to take the initiative. How often do you see female members ask the males "hey do you wanna go into the room?" Haha , I bet not many.
"Self-confidence" not "arrogant"
Females dig men with self confidence. Yah, u may get the "lemon" at first but suck it up, man it up. If you don't try, you will never know what's right and what's wrong. If you're a newbie, don't just hang around in the corner and observe. Find something you're good at and show the gals what great traits you have. Being the quiet bee in these scenarios aren't to your advantage. On the other hand, don't over do it because it will only lead to arrogance. You may accidentally push someone's buttons without knowing and leave them a very bad first impression. As well, one very bad approach is interrupting in the middle of someone's interaction. Yeah, you see him and her getting it on, and then you suddenly join in and think you can get an easy shot at it.... Well some members may be ok with it, but some may be offended. It's like, " I don't even know you nor have we talked enough and you just barge right in and start touching me? no no no...."
You see, this is all like a game . You need to know the rules , play by it, follow it, be a bit competitive but not overdo it. Yeah it sounds kinda complicated but aren't human beings complicated to begin with? It's like a catching/wooing game.
E-: engage
Forum is the main source for every members to communicate with each other. It's here where everyone will get to know each other before meeting In person. Why not make good use of it and let everyone know who you are ? It's the perfect way to leave a good impression. When members come and see your name... They will be like "ah, I'm looking forward to see who this person is... Etc etc etc". It's probably easier to start a conversation in person as well. You engage in forum, you then engage when you participate in parties.
It's nice to see how everyone evolves in SBC. For example , Niccolo. I remember the first time you came to the party you were definitely a shy bean. I bet you've eaten lots of lemon from test trials and of course you've learned from it. Now you seem to blend in very well within the group. I'm very happy to see that. I observe you all the time ga haha. Such a sweet guy and I always enjoy your presence , truly
Same applies to crazyMonkey. My batman .... Oh boy. You looking so fine in that Under Armour top. I've seen that top around for ages, but to see it on someone in real.... Breathtaking. I love the material, I love the logo, I love everything about it. Honestly, I could rub myself on you the whole night if I could haha..... it's great to see you blending in smoothly as well. I can't forget your "Hulk and Batman" moment. I caught you two kissing ... It was hilarious and yet memorable. Ms. hulk you are one of a kind. As Dr said, you don't look feminine at all in that body suit of yours. You are one hot looking Hulk. As our eyes scan your whole body, oh boy... The heat in the house is UP THERE. The way you unzip your back showing your smooth white skin.... Then your cleavage reveals themselves.... Even a girl can get horny looking at you (I'm referring to myself actually haha). Chanel bb you are one hot looking lady honestly. In fact, when you tried to seduce me in the living room, I really had the urge to get on all over you, really :p. Who could resist eh?
Next time, if it happens again... I swear to god, I'll definitely 腿張開for you. You can do whatever you want with my body haha. But of course , I really hope one day you let me in you. That is still my mission up until now I can already forsee how it turns up..... One fxxxxxxxxx hot session. Yes Chanel BB, I'm hinting you wink
It'll be like another "Wendy Max and QB" time for me definitely.... Oh how I miss those intimate threesomes...........
I gotta say, Shiba is under my spell. The way I caress her body, the way I trickled my fingers up and down her arms and thighs, I bet you she feels my tingles. Yes SHIBA , I'm talking about you. Aside from hot Wendy and sweet baby Candy, you're the third person I've gone down and under :p. I'm not ashamed to admit it , I think it's fxxxxxx hot and seriously , can it really happen outside of SBC for me? I totally doubt it.E--: goes for Experience
Yeah, I've gained LOTS of experience from SBC. These parties allowed me to try new things , explore new boundaries , test my limits and go far and beyond what I expect. There's still many more I'm looking to explore and I hope I can find great partners to try it with in SBC
As Dr mention of my "improvements" in terms of my skills, I'm quite flattered. I guess I improve by learning and understanding what the opposite sex wants/enjoy. When I don't get something I tend to ask. "Do you like this? Do you like that? How do you want my tongue to move? How do you want my hands to move?" It's usually the feedback I receive from the opposite sex that allows me to improve my skills I guess. Added to that, doing something out of the ordinary will always surprise the opposite sex.
Tip
There's one thing in particular that I've tried with people that always surprises them. The act of spitting. Yup. spit. It doesn't sound very pretty or nice but I know men digs it. You think it's too dirty or messy ? Men loves it. I find the dirtier the girl is, the more turned on they become. It's probably because it's so unexpected from the lady to get down and dirty which makes it very hot. I enjoy spitting when I perform oral. The looks I get from them is always very satisfying. Just a dirty trick I find very useful when you're seducing your man winkTip
The combination of lip muscle, tongue movement , and hand movement. Not everyone enjoys the fast pace jerks. (It's probably most useful when the man is about to cum). Human genitals are very sensitive organs. It's not all about going hard and fast. Sometimes a slow but firm grip with some tongue movement suits the man's need the most. Please keep in mind, the tip of the iceberg is the most sensitive part. The key thing here is to be playful, to do the unexpected , to give variations , but most importantly ... To be passionate about what you're doing. Making them feel like you're doing it because you enjoy giving it rather than because it's a duty is far more important.
Haha, I know many members want me to open up a class ... Wow i feel honoured. I know I have great skills, haha, mainly because I enjoy giving it (who doesn't :p), but to be put high up there by Dr... Haha I'm really flattered. If I could show all the gal members what I've learned from practice, I be happy to... Maybe one day a class could be possibleX-: this is a hard letter but I guess I'll say.... Xperience
X-factor
XtendIt was great to see Venus again. She's a busy bee so for her to take time to come to the party , it was great. Venus you always give me a feeling of you as a powerful strong woman. I dig that, that confidence is always an attribute in women. I know you want me to give you to tips, I hope I can show you one day, for reals
It's always nice to Extend a helping hand. This time I arrived slightly earlier to give Dr a hand. Not "literally a helping hand" haha.. But help. Went to grab some necessities and drinks for the party. Due to some circumstances , QB is more of a social bee now than a "working"bee. Yeah you probably don't see me in action much anymore. Not because I don't like it, just ... I have my circumstances hehe. It's ok, I love being at the parties. It won't prevent me becoming a "helping hand" though. As always , I tend to interrupt sessions and add a hand here and there . You know you guys love it
The X-factor: what gives you the "umph" in Sex, in desire, in fantasy etc etc etcI'm calling out now to all female members who wanna go to the extreme and explore new territories with me. Yes, qB is recruiting members to participate with me. I'm sure male members will not disagree with my proposal:p
So for all you adventurous gals out there who wanna try something new "wink", do lemme know haha....
Ps. Thanks Dr for the birthday cake . It was very sweet and lovely and delicious.
Pps: Taylor yes it was our first kiss I believe .... How did it feel ......?
For all the other members, I've yet to witness some of your actions...Love qb
Xoxo本主題由 Dr. 於 2020-8-5 00:41 移動
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niccolo 發表於 2015-4-27 15:49
ohhhh..yea....so hard...dun say it...the sound still inside my brain.....my little one gonna lift ...
Lift the desk?
有無咁誇張啊 -
niccolo 發表於 2015-4-27 13:17
i am going to apply for volunteer when you are going to teach venus...heehee
At this moment,
I only have one person in mind to be my volunteer
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niccolo 發表於 2015-4-27 13:15
Tip
There's one thing in particular that I've tried with people that always surprises them. The ...
Powerful.. Haha yes
I think I'm good at / and enjoy writing sexually
It's probably a hobby of mine硬左係咪應該post翻張相呢?
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niccolo 發表於 2015-4-27 13:08
i have met the devilish face , i found it when she's holding the pink weapon..heehee...and i am go ...
I'm sure one day you'll be able to explore all sides of QB -
QueenB 發表於 2015-4-27 15:45
I know for a fact you've been waiting for me to go down on you ....My "slurping , ...
ohhhh..yea....so hard...dun say it...the sound still inside my brain.....my little one gonna lift the office desk..... -
馳星周 發表於 2015-4-27 13:04
太長..下次都係搵你傾計好.
星星
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Shiba 發表於 2015-4-27 12:48
Shiba is under my spell. The way I caress her body, the way I trickled my fingers up and down her a ...
Haha.
I believe I can change you truly
If you open up to me, I promise I can make you feel like you're on cloud 9 -
SuperMario 發表於 2015-4-27 12:39
Wow what an observation and a deep sharing!
Sounds like a Cosmopolitan article lol
Then you should write a male version of my memoir -
niccolo 發表於 2015-4-27 12:26
heehee, yes dear, you are right, i was a shy shy lemon eaten guy before!! frankly, i hate hurtin ...I know for a fact you've been waiting for me to go down on you ....
My "slurping , wet , vibrating noise " makes you hard eh?
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Dr. 發表於 2015-4-27 12:20
A very thoughtful masterpiece QB! This is by far the most touching memoir I've seen. Can I send it t ...
Thanks Dr
I appreciate it when someone appreciates my writing
"Writers mode in effect"!
I will continue to spill my thoughts out for other members to read -
taylor 發表於 2015-4-27 11:41
"Pps: Taylor yes it was our first kiss I believe .... How did it feel ......?"Your lips are soft ...
Haha...... Hmm Taylor ... Maybe one day...
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imouse 發表於 2015-4-27 11:37
weird symbols
That's all you got to say?
Tsk tsk tsk mouse .... -
niccolo 發表於 2015-4-27 13:15
Tip
There's one thing in particular that I've tried with people that always surprises them. The ...
i am going to apply for volunteer when you are going to teach venus...heehee -
本帖最後由 niccolo 於 2015-4-27 13:19 編輯
Tip
There's one thing in particular that I've tried with people that always surprises them. The act of spitting. Yup. spit. It doesn't sound very pretty or nice but I know men digs it. You think it's too dirty or messy ? Men loves it. I find the dirtier the girl is, the more turned on they become. It's probably because it's so unexpected from the lady to get down and dirty which makes it very hot. I enjoy spitting when I perform oral. The looks I get from them is always very satisfying. Just a dirty trick I find very useful when you're seducing your man winkgetting so HARD when im reading this part......OMG! powerful article....
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Dr. 發表於 2015-4-27 12:33
You didn't see that devilish and sexy soul under the "sweet and lovely" face? Man, look deeper!{:1 ...
i have met the devilish face , i found it when she's holding the pink weapon..heehee...and i am going to explore the sexy soul later on heehee.... -
太長..下次都係搵你傾計好.
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Shiba 發表於 2015-4-27 12:48
Shiba is under my spell. The way I caress her body, the way I trickled my fingers up and down her a ...
咁大獲?!?! -
Shiba is under my spell. The way I caress her body, the way I trickled my fingers up and down her arms and thighs, I bet you she feels my tingles. Yes SHIBA , I'm talking about you. Aside from hot Wendy and sweet baby Candy, you're the third person I've gone down and under :p. I'm not ashamed to admit it , I think it's fxxxxxx hot and seriously , can it really happen outside of SBC for me? I totally doubt it.
真係唔知點解...
你隻手真係好X痕....
如果我有一日唔鍾意男人
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Wow what an observation and a deep sharing!
Sounds like a Cosmopolitan article lol